Sometimes I think when we get wrapped up into certain things, we lose sight of ourselves.
I've been so many different things in my 42 years on this Earth. Some were by choice and some weren't. Thing is, as an adult we can choose what we want to be until age creeps in and starts closing doors behind us.
I can honestly say that I've done a lot of things that I'm not exactly proud of but I've also had the balls to do a lot of things while other people just sat and watched in awe. I came to the conclusion that the only person that holds me back is me and the decisions that I make. Everyone thinks that they are right 100% of the time but what we need to realize is that the laws of probability contradict that statement.
I don't know. Maybe it's just hard to swallow when someone that you love pisses all over something that you believe in to the core.